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5.  Now its time to step up

Ok, you've alread marked off 8 steps.  That may be more things you've marked off your list all week.  Seriously, here we are.  FYI - We all want to say that we are proud of you for stepping up and going this far.  Few men are willing to do it.  And we can promise you that a lot of "males" wish they had the balls to step up the plate when God calls them out just like you have done.  Now, let's keep going.

Of course, these next steps just don't happen by themselves.  It takes some action and initiative from you.  And remember, initiative is one of the key components of masculinity.  In doing this, you are going to experience more and more of who God made you to be.  Don't forget that.

So, now its time to make contact.  There are two ways make contact:  1.  email  2.  phone.  Now, we all know its more time efficient to email something.  But just a piece of advise - sooner or later you probably need to make a phone call.  If the list is just too big for that, then email will have to do.  You can only do so much in the time you have.  If it is an email, try to be as open and honest as you can.  Provide a link back to our website if they want more information.

Here are your next steps:

  1. Reach out to the men on the list.  Within your contact - either by phone or email - tell the men that you would like to have a meeting together with all of them.  FYI - not all will be able to make it.  That's ok.  Pick a time and place that will work best with the most guys.
  2. (Stop reading this and go back to step 1 on this page if you haven't set a meeting yet.  Don't get ahead of yourself, it just bogs you down.  One step at a time.  Again, we understand that men only have limited energy and time to do things and don't want to add to it with too much to worry about.)